How can couples keep the spark alive after many years of marriage?

I think the spark is kept alive by continuous effort. Just like a fire needs wood, marriage needs new experiences. Small surprises, weekend trips, or even cooking together can bring back the excitement. The mistake many couples make is thinking love will fuel itself forever without care.

After 18 years of marriage, my partner and I learned that routine kills passion. We try to break the routine once in a while. For example: - We try a new hobby together every year. - We plan a “first date” day where we pretend we just met. - We still compliment each other daily. It might sound cheesy, but it works. Love is action, not just feeling.