How do you know when a friend is using you?

It is not always easy to see, but some points help: - They contact you only when they need money or favors. - They don’t listen when you share problems. - They never show up when you need support. If these things repeat often, maybe they are using you.

I realized one of my friends was using me when he only came to me for help but never asked how I was. A good sign is when someone disappears after getting what they want. True friendship is about give and take, not just take.

I think sometimes we confuse busy people with users. A friend may not always be available, but if they respect you and show kindness at least sometimes, they are not using you. Using means they only see you as benefit, not as a person.