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How to celebrate a breakup?

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The moment after a difficult breakup can be one of the saddest a person will experience, even if there was no love involved, but after accepting it you have two options; use that moment to fall into the pit of desolation, or use it as an impulse to go on with your life with your head held high. Don't put on your pajamas and listen to songs that cause you more pain, leave the masochism.

Zero people who are going to judge you, your best friends, those who know about you, and those who have been in your relationship are the people you want to keep.

If you surround yourself with your best friends, your parents, or your brothers, you will be given a boost that will help you smile, and they will be there with their ready shoulder.

If you like crafts and have time, you can decorate with a theme. Brittany Jepsen posted a pin idea on her website called D.I.Y for a "resignation party" and I liked it.

It's the occasion that calls for it. I got these original break-up cake ideas from the internet.

A playlist that makes you feel good, helps you lift your spirits and gives you more confidence, is a good thing. I made you one from spotify, so I leave it for you if you feel like it.

Some cocktails or wine can make you feel better. Excess alcohol can be good for forgetting, but remember that it will only be at that moment, the emotional hangover can be stronger the next day.

This is the perfect time for you to tell them about your dreams, your ambitions, and the fact that you have not been able to achieve them in that relationship.

Tell them about your muses, the things that inspire you. True friends are usually also muses, they with their words of encouragement will be a source of inspiration.

It's a kind of trick to anchor in psychology, which is the process in which we associate a stimuli with an emotional state. If you are having a nice moment in the middle of the celebration, you can light a candle with a pleasant smell like incense, or an anchor with a smell like vanilla. When you feel sad, you can turn that smell back on, it will make you remember the times you had.

If it is your best friend who is going through a break up, or even a car gift for you, I leave you some perfect gift ideas that you could give yourself.

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