Accidentally use the wrong pronoun even though the intentions were right in the first place? Yet again, JVN has the answer. You wrongly used female pronouns here in what is either full on transphobia or really bad bad. Emphasising that he doesn't mind which pronouns people use for him, JVN said that people who use they/them pronouns, like Sam Smith, must. Last week, it was announced that Van Ness ― who stated a preference for the pronouns he, him and his ― would be partnering with essie nail.