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Why can't i remember the alphabet?

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Is your toddler or preschooler having trouble learning letters? Learn 3 reasons why your child is having trouble learning letters and how to fix it using fun, hands-on activities at home.

You wish the pressure of having children “know their letters” by a certain age wasn’t a thing. But you know it's pretty much expected these days that children will start school already knowing the alphabet. You sure don’t want your child to be at a disadvantage because you didn’t do enough to get ready for learning to read.

So you spend lots of time searching for alphabet activities on Pinterest, but it feels like you're always looking for that elusive activity that's finally going to make letter sounds stick.

Maybe you can relate to this mom who said:

The worst part is when you start to worry that your child is falling behind because of this struggle to learn letters. You might even catch yourself thinking…

I know that you just want to do everything possible to help your preschooler get ready for learning to read. So let’s fix this, ok?

It’s not you or your child! It’s your STRATEGY.

Most likely your child is having trouble learning letters because you’ve missed a step in the learning sequence for teaching phonics.

Teaching phonics means helping your child learn the code between speech sounds and alphabet letters.

You end up trying to piece it together yourself based on alphabet activities that you find on Pinterest.

It's so much easier when you know the learning sequence from pre-reading to early reading and you can clearly see what your child needs to focus on right now!

I created the Playful Path to Reading preschool phonics program to take the stress and guesswork out of teaching letter sounds at home so that your 3-5 year old child will learn to read easily. Check it out if you need some structure, resources and guidance so that you can teach phonics at home without feeling overwhelmed.

This is especially true for toddlers learning letters.

It's a common mistake to think that toddlers are ready for learning letters when you notice them pointing to letters and asking, “What’s that?”

The truth is that a toddler's “interest in letters” is actually just an eagerness for language.

Toddlers simply want to know the names of everything to build vocabulary.

Keep in mind that words are made up of speech sounds in a row.

It isn't until children are around 3 years old that they've gone through the language explosion. It's only then that they will begin to shift their focus from building vocabulary to building phonemic awareness by becoming aware of individual sounds (phonemes) in spoken words.

Once a child can identify at least the beginning sound of spoken words, then it's time to show what those sounds look like using alphabet letters.

There’s really not much point trying to get your 18 month old to learn letters by buying a bunch of alphabet toys and puzzles, stamping letters into play dough or making letter crafts.

Sure, some young toddlers can memorize letter names and letter sounds. But that’s no more impressive than naming any object!

You can really simplify learning letters when you focus on phonemic awareness before you start letter recognition activities.

Otherwise your child is just memorizing letter sounds out of context and in isolation, with little understanding of what the letters actually mean.

One of the biggest mistakes is starting sound-letter matching activities before your child understands that letters are symbols.

The alphabet letters only have meaning because we’ve all agreed that a certain written symbol represents a sound in our spoken language.

Phonemic awareness is the best predictor of how well children learn to read!

That's because reading requires knowledge of the code between speech sounds and written symbols.

Phonemic awareness is what really matters for reading readiness.

By focusing on phonemic awareness first, the letter symbols will have meaning for your child when it comes time to associate them with the sounds in spoken words.

When you search “learning letters” on Pinterest to find alphabet activity ideas, it’s easy to think that you’re supposed to teach uppercase and lowercase letter names and letter sounds, all at the same time.

For some children, it’s just too much information to absorb when you try to teach uppercase and lowercase letter names and sounds all at the same time.

Keep in mind that knowing the names of the alphabet letters doesn’t prepare your preschooler for learning phonics!

When sounding out a word, some children who know letter names will say the letter name instead of the speech sound that the letter represents. Then they cannot hear the word when they blend it together because it doesn’t make any sense.

For example, imagine a child who sees the word “cat” and sounds out “see ay tee”. This child will be unable to decode the word because of confusion between letter names and letter sounds.

Knowledge of letter names becomes more useful when your child shifts away from inventive spelling and starts learning conventional (correct) spelling in the early elementary years. There’s no rush!

Most letters in books are lowercase. Uppercase letters really aren’t that relevant until your child is at the stage of reading sentences that begin with an uppercase letter.

You can keep it simple by teaching only lowercase letter sounds when you start teaching phonics to your preschooler at home.

Is your child is having trouble learning letters? Or maybe you just want to start teaching phonics the right way so you can avoid this stressful scenario!

STEP 1 is to do phonemic awareness activities such as this beginning sounds game to help your child hear the speech sounds in spoken words. That way your child will have the foundation needed to understand that letters represent speech sounds.

Celina Whorf
Answer # 2 #
  • Practice a few characters at a time. Learning an entire alphabet is a lot of material to remember.
  • Associate new characters to English letters.
  • Create mnemonic devices.
  • Listen to an alphabet song.
  • Write out the characters.
Louanne Guégan
Cosmetic Nursing