Can financial issues ruin a good relationship, and how can couples avoid that?

Yes, money problems can destroy love if not handled well. When bills pile up or one spends carelessly, it creates stress. To avoid it, couples should: - Make a budget together - Be open about debts and income - Decide on saving goals - Respect each other’s spending choices Financial honesty builds trust.

In my marriage, money was our biggest fight. We solved it by keeping a joint account for shared expenses and separate accounts for personal spending. This way, we both had freedom but also responsibility. It stopped many useless arguments.

I believe financial issues don’t ruin relationships by themselves; secrecy and blame do. If partners are transparent and work as a team, even financial struggles can bring them closer. But if they hide, compare, or blame, the relationship suffers.