How do you know if someone truly values your presence in their life?

Signs that someone values you: - They respect your boundaries. - They include you in important decisions. - They support you in hard times, not only in good ones. If these three things exist, then your presence really matters to them.

I measure it by how I feel after spending time with them. If I feel lighter, happier, or calmer, then I know they value me. If I constantly feel drained, ignored, or used, then maybe I am just convenient for them, not truly valued.

You can tell by their actions, not just words. If they make time for you even in busy schedules, if they listen when you talk, and if they celebrate your success instead of feeling jealous, then they value you. Real value is shown in small consistent gestures.