How should couples handle disagreements about parenting styles?

Couples should first discuss privately, not argue in front of children. Then they can try to find middle ground by focusing on what benefits the child most. If still stuck, they can consult a counselor or parenting guide. Remember, children need consistency more than perfection.

In my experience, one parent was strict, the other lenient. We decided each of us would take lead in certain areas: my partner handled discipline, I handled encouragement. It worked well because the child received both structure and support.