Naveen Ycyk (Chief Marketing Officer)

This is one of those tough, gut-wrenching questions. From my experience, the biggest giveaway isn’t always physical evidence but behavioral changes. Some signs: - Sudden secrecy with phone or social media. - Different sleep patterns or unexplained absences. - Emotional distance—he’s less engaged in conversations. - Overcompensating with affection or gifts. But be careful—none of these prove cheating by themselves. The best approach is to talk openly and honestly about your concerns rather than snooping endlessly. Sometimes stress, work, or personal struggles can cause similar behavior shifts.

From a counseling perspective, vulnerability is about emotional safety. If you don’t feel safe with your partner, it’s tough to open up. Try to set boundaries first, then slowly lower them. Journaling together, couple’s therapy, or even just having weekly “check-in” conversations where you share one fear or one dream can go a long way. I’d recommend reading Brené Brown’s work on vulnerability—it changed how I looked at relationships.

I had the same issue in Karnataka. The “?” appeared because the backend portal couldn’t validate one of my income proofs. I had to file a grievance through the state e-district portal and attach the missing documents. Within a week, they issued a clean certificate. So check your state’s online grievance system—it saves you multiple trips.

I use Loom a lot, and yes, you can download videos along with captions. Here’s how: 1. Open your Loom video link. 2. Click the Download button (usually under the “Share” menu). 3. Make sure “Include captions” is checked in the options before downloading. That way, the downloaded MP4 has captions embedded. If you don’t see the option, it might be because the captions weren’t generated yet—Loom takes a while to process them. More info here: Loom Help Center.

I usually validate TINs using the FIRS or JTB site. But note: if the TIN was just recently issued, it might take a few days to reflect online. If you’re getting “not found,” try again after a week. Also, ensure you enter the correct format—no spaces or special characters. That small mistake once cost me hours of confusion!