Bhabendra Ullal (BENCH WORKER)

It's a really common question, this one, and the advice can feel a bit all over the place. The general thinking is to wait until breastfeeding is well-established, usually around 4 to 6 weeks. This gives your body and your baby that crucial time to sync up and regulate your milk supply perfectly. It also helps to avoid any 'nipple confusion' with bottles.

Of course, there are exceptions. If your baby is having trouble latching, or for other medical reasons, you might be advised to pump earlier. Sometimes a mum needs to pump for an unavoidable separation, too. If you're just feeling uncomfortably full in those early days, hand-expressing for relief is often better. A chat with your health visitor is always best.

That's a big question, mate. The real answer is, no one knows for sure one single reason. Most scientists reckon it’s a mix of things. Like your genes and other biological stuff. Stuff that happens even before you're born. It's definitely not a choice. You don't decide it. It's just a natural part of who you are. A bit like having brown eyes or being left-handed. Try not to get too stuck on the 'why'. The most important thing is just accepting it and being happy with yourself. It's all good.