What are your in french?

You might remember that all French nouns are either masculine or feminine. Even things like tables and lamps. The upshot of this is that French possessive adjectives will change depending on the gender of the noun they're describing. Like this:

In English, the word "my" stays the same. But in French it changes depending on whether you're talking about a masculine noun (père) or a feminine noun (mère).

Sounds simple, right? Well there's a little confusing twist for English speakers. Look at these examples and see if you can spot what it is:

Did you notice that the French for "his father" and "her father" is exactly the same?

Yup. The gender of the child is neither here nor there. It doesn't factor into the sentence at all. That's confusing for English speakers who are used to saying "his" and "her".

It also means you also get this kind of situation:

Again, you can't tell the gender of the child in this example, because the possessive adjective is only interested in the gender of the noun it's describing. (And obviously "father" is a masculine noun, while "mother" is a feminine noun.) Tricky, right?

There are a couple of times when it doesn't matter if you're talking about a masculine noun or a feminine noun, the possessive adjective will always be the same.

Since the feminine possessive adjectives (ma, ta, sa) end in vowels, it would be quite awkward to have to say a word beginning with a vowel right afterwards. (Try it yourself: It's like trying to say "a apple".)

To avoid this inelegant situation, any time there's a noun that starts with a vowel — regardless of its real gender — you'll use the masculine possessive adjective, since they all end in an N, and this makes it easier to run the words together smoothly.

The possessive adjectives for "our", "their", group "your" and formal "your" are the same regardless of the gender of the noun. So that makes things a little simpler, right?

Here's a full table so you can wrap your head around it:

An adjective is anything that modifies (or changes the meaning of) a noun. The most typical examples are descriptions that express opinions (beautiful, handsome, etc.), colors, shapes, or sizes. However, adjectives can also describe who an object belongs to. These are called les adjectifs possessifs (as you may have guessed from the title), and in French they have a few important differences from the English “my, your, his, her, our, and their.”

Avez-vous vu mon chat? (Have you seen my cat?)

You can see how the word “my” provides a description of the cat, which helps us pick out which one we’re discussing in the same way that adjectives like “gray” or “cute” do. The possessive adjective always comes before the noun which is “owned,” just like in English. Note that when a possessive replaces a noun altogether (yours, his, hers, etc.), it’s a pronoun, not an adjective.

French adjectives change to reflect the gender and number of the noun they’re describing. This means that there are different possessive adjectives for masculine, feminine, and plural nouns.

If the adjective comes before a noun that begins with a vowel or a silent “H” (h muet), use the masculine adjective to avoid an awkward double vowel (of which the French are not fans!). You can imagine that ma amie would come out sounding like some ugly version of “Mommy,” and mon amie is much more fluid for pronunciation purposes.

Voici mon amie Marie. (This is my friend (fem. sing.) Marie.)

Avez-vous utilisé son huile pour cuire les légumes? (Did you use his oil (fem. sing.) to cook the vegetables?)

Note that for once, French is not the only language that changes its possessive adjectives to match the noun.

I stole her ball.

However, this is actually a big difference from English, in which the possessive adjective matches the owner, not the possessed object. In French, the adjective changes to match the object in gender and number.

J’ai rencontré sa fille, mais pas son fils. (I have met his daughter, but not his son.)

Elle a arrosé sa plante (fem. sing.). (She watered his/her plant.)

Notice that French does not use the possessive adjective to talk about body parts that are “owned” by someone; they are just referred to with the definite article, or as “the __.” The ownership is instead expressed by the reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, etc.).

Je me lave le pied. I am washing my foot.

Elle se brosse les dents. She brushes her teeth.

Since the adjective must match the object, each object gets its own adjective!

• mon (masculine singular), mon stylo (my pen)
• ma (feminine singular), ma montre (my watch)
• mes (plural), mes livres (my books)